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"I don't have words, only deep deep penetrating sorrow"
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7/6/2010 7:00:00 PM
"I don't have words, only deep deep penetrating sorrow"
These are the words one of my best friends in the world Channie had to write today. Why? Because of a terrible and tragic loss she had to suffer today. Something hopefully none of us will never know. The loss of a child.
I met Chandra LaPlume when I moved to Nashville in 1996. She and I have shared a bond like sisters since that time. Maybe separated by a state once I moved to Atlanta, but never ever separated by our hearts. Years later, when Channie met Jeff Pereira, I knew I loved him too. I felt that immeasurable love as I stood pregnant and part of their beautiful wedding day five years ago last month. Channie and Jeff have played a very important part in my life. My heart. Channie was with me for the birth of my daughter Lily and I was there when Jade was born...almost one hour before my own birthday which made us laugh. The Pererira's along with Channie's family...The LaPlume's and Eric, Lily and myself went to Hilton Head the weekend before last. It was a magical time. Channie and Jeff really do have a beautiful family. Jade (almost 4) and Logan (2 next month), Channie's parents Andy and Carol, Channie's sister Laurie, Laurie's son Evan and Jeff's mom Jeannine. All of whom I have known for years. We went to the pool, the beach, ate to our bellies were full and laughed and laughed throughout the whole weekend. I left feeling happy and high on life and ready to start my battle with Chemo. I felt Blessed.
Last night I got a call from our sweet friend Shane ("Shane-A-Punim" as I call him) telling me there had been a terrible accident and Baby Logan and Grandma Jeannine were in the ICU and in critical condition. I was sick with sadness and worry. Eric, Lily and I immediately gathered together and prayed over and over again for the Lord to deliver Baby Logan and Jeannine to wellness and safety.
After a sleepless night, I drove to work this morning with a huge ache in my heart but filled with the hope that God would bring sweet Logan and Jeannine out of this nightmare and home to their family. Before I pulled into our building however, I got the word that God had decided to bring Logan home...to His family. It is with a heavy heart that I say that the sweetest boy in the world Logan Pereira was taken up to our Heavenly Father this morning where he will spend the rest of his eternal life.
Jeannine is still in critical condition and we are in desperate need of your prayers. Please pray that Jeff's mother starts to heal and survive her own ordeal. Please pray that peace and understanding is brought to the Pereira and LaPlume families and they may receive some release from this pain they are all feeling. And please please pray that the deep, deep, penetrating sorrow that my dear friend Channie feels will subside in time, that her numbness dissipates and that she will be able to live her life knowing her sweet angel Logan and our Lord will be guiding her through some how, some way.
Rest In Peace sweet baby Logan Pereira. We love you!
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Cindy Simmons
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My heart is very heavy and aching for this entire family!!! I can't even begin to imagine the pain and sorrow. I just read about this tragedy today and I have been in constant prayer for this family. I will continue to pray for everyone involved and you also.
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Posted By
Missy turley
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7/9/2010 10:28:46 PM
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Don't personally know any of you....but, this tragic event still brought tears to my eyes. God bless you all.
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Posted By
karen g
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7/9/2010 1:06:26 PM
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My Prayers go out to the family for this tragic loss. I can't even begin to imagine the loss of a child. May peace be with you.
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Posted By
Regina
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7/9/2010 7:13:58 AM
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praying for you and the Pereira family.
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Posted By
Kim
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7/8/2010 7:11:32 PM
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I have a little boy named Logan who is 4 months older than Baby Logan. As a mom this story has sent chills throughout my body and I feel so sorry for the family. I can never imagine what it would be like losing my child. I am praying that the family gets through the aches and pains and realizes Baby Logan is now watching over them all with a huge smile and lots of love!!!!
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Posted By
Amy Johnson
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7/8/2010 1:03:17 PM
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What a magnificent tribute you have written, Cindy, both to little Logan and to his family. There are just no words in the lost of a child. May God give them all strength and surround them in loving arms.
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Posted By
Linda
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7/8/2010 11:13:27 AM
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I am so sorry to hear this tragic news. The loss of a child is beyond devastating. My prayers are with Channie's entire family as well as with your's. Only God knows the plans He has for us and all we can pray for is an understanding of His perfect plan and perfect love.
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Posted By
Hayley
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7/8/2010 9:46:31 AM
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I lost my 18 year old son almost 10 years ago. Time does not heel the loss, but does change the perspective. Know that death is only hard for the living. Those who have gone before us do not want us to cease living, but to live in honor of them. Your friend has a long road ahead of her. I pray that she will know the love and peace of the lord, and to rejoice in the fact that her beloved child now walks with the lord.
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Posted By
Kathy Sheets
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7/7/2010 2:47:05 PM
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As a mom... this just sends chills through my whole body, and my heart aches for the family and for yous. My prayers for all of you - especially the Grandma...
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Posted By
Lizzy
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7/7/2010 1:23:16 PM
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Please know how sorry I was to read your post today. Your loss is beyond words. Just let the love and comforting arms of your friends and families encircle you in your time of such sorrow.
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Posted By
Susan Highsmith Home
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7/7/2010 10:35:02 AM
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It is always hard to lose a child as I know as I watched my mother go through this when my brother was killed. Even though he was 51 when he died he was still my mother's son. I pray for your friend to ease the pain of her heart. Send my blessings to her and good luck with the battle that you are facing...God Bless.
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Posted By
Lynne
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7/7/2010 8:14:39 AM
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I have been feeling sorry for myself lately but you have brought it all in perspective for me today. I still have my 3 children to hug and kiss today. Thank you, Cindy for sharing this story and my prayers are with you and your dear friend, Channie
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Posted By
Laura
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7/7/2010 6:49:09 AM
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I am speechless and praying!!
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Posted By
Kathy
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7/7/2010 1:13:15 AM
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Cindy, that is the most sadest thing, i've ever read!! It breaks my heart, to know that your friend,Channie lost her son, Logan!!!! This story, just makes me want to cry till I can't cry anymore!! I'm truely and deeply sorry, for Channies lose!! I read and re-read this for idk how many times, but the Lord is with YOUR familey and Channies familey every single step of the way!!
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Posted By
Josie
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7/6/2010 11:35:05 PM
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What a sweet and lovely tribute to your friend and her sweet baby Logan. I wept as I read your words. Time will heal her heart. We are incapable of understanding why tragedies like this happen. All I can say is God needed another angel and reached down for Logan. Praying for all of you during this painful time.
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Posted By
Cindy Pittman
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7/6/2010 9:04:22 PM
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I can not immagine the feeling she is going through right now. I will most definetly keep them in my thought's and prayer's. This just does not seem fair. I have often asked why? I know we shouldn't but I know it's human nature to ask why to God. We have no clue what the reason is for this. God only know's. I pray for you and each one of her family memeber's. This is something no one will ever get over. Adult or child. Death is hard to over come. We can in time but it will never be the same.
God Bless you and her family.
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Posted By
Sandi
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7/6/2010 8:43:33 PM
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Oh Cin this breaks my heart to pieces. I am so sorry for your friend's loss and your loss as well. You and your friends will be in my thoughts and prayers.
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Posted By
Katie Beasley
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7/6/2010 8:34:18 PM
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that was simply beautiful. sending love to you too!
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Posted By
Anne MarieDavidson
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7/6/2010 8:15:38 PM
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I am very sorry for the loss in your extended family. Our family has lost a child as well and it is the worst pain one can experience. I will be praying for Jeannie and her family as well as you and your family as well. Love and hugs to all of you.
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Posted By
Jules
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7/6/2010 8:14:46 PM
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I am so sorry to hear this terrible news. I cannot begin to imagine how sad they must feel. I will definitely pray for all of them. I am sorry you are all hurting right now. I too have friends who are close enough to be considered family and losing one of them would devastate me. Thinking of you and praying for your friend right now...
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Posted By
Amy (FBFA)
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7/6/2010 8:00:59 PM
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